With the aggression, in the past I've used the bucket technique before, and most recently with my newest Arowana.
Simply remove the aggressor, in my case my smaller arowana was going after the larger new addition. Now wrangling these fish is no small feat, and my bucket, is more of a small tub with a lid.
After being together for about 2 days, I observed my smaller Aro harassing my new one. I decided after much thought, to remove the smaller Aro and put him in the tub for 30 minutes. This serves two purposes. It allows the new guy some time to relax without being harassed constantly, and when putting the smaller one back in the tank he perceived this as a new tank and was much less aggressive.
Hope you can get it worked out.